When we cultivate a relationship, bonds naturally occur. And guess what? That is beautiful. There is nothing wrong with this. We can, of course, learn to soften our attachment to particular outcomes in our connections. However, the attachment we feel being connected to another is totally okay. We can learn to love and honor this natural process. Your love will naturally grow when you find the willingness of a Lover to show up authentically in your bonding connections. And we can invoke the Wisdom Lover to practice discernment in how we choose to connect by honoring the person and the process.